The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique. Until quite recently it was believed that personality is permanent. Now it has been realized that personality can be developed. 

A good personality means the person is likable, interesting and pleasant to be with.  People with good personalities interact well with people. It gives them an opportunity to express themselves well. When your interactions with people go wrong people can get misunderstandings about you. You may be a loving and kind person, but people may not be aware about your qualities. When your personality is good people can identify you as your real self. Because your personality is you. What you think, how you feel, how you behave defines your personality. To have a good  personality some people act in a way that other people want them to. That is a fake personality. It is better to develop your  genuine personality to become the best version of yourself. 

Taking care and loving yourself is important to develop a great personality. Here are some tips to improve your personality.

1. Be a better listener : When you listen well to a person when he/she speaks that person feels he/she is important. Look in the eye and give sympathetic nodes accordingly when somebody speaks.  Try to understand their point of view even when you do not agree with them. Ask questions to get a clear picture and encourage them to talk. Do not listen to what other people say about people.  You should understand them by talking to them on your own  because you have ears, eyes and a mouth, you don’t want to see or listen  through other people's eyes and ears.

2. Communicate with people : Create a good relationship with people around you.  Use positive gestures, communicate with everyone, and never give off a negative vibe.Learn about people, what they want to hear and what they don’t, how they are liked to be treated. Improve your social skills.

3. Read more, expand your knowledge and interests :The more you read and your variety of interests expand you’ll become an interesting person, because you have many things to share with others. Learn how to share it with others.  I also should improve my skills in this regard. 

4. Learn the art of conversations:  Learn how to talk about the things you know with others without dominating. Do not interrupt and cut in with your own ideas before the other person is finished speaking. One thing you should keep in mind is that you should have an opinion about something. Otherwise to get people’s attention you can’t express different opinions about the same thing at different times. Then people would think you are an unreliable person. 

5. Have a positive outlook: Do you like to be around someone who is always complaining? Or have nothing good to say? So be the kind of a person who is fun,cheerful and pleasant to be with. Don’t get angry and always keep cool. When you don’t get angry easily it gives the impression that you are a strong person. 

6.  Learn to smile impressively: Smile to everyone where you make eye contact. If you can’t smile with an unknown person genuinely give some time to know about that person. Little by little you can overcome that.  You have to first practice different kinds of smiles and make sure you aren’t giving off creepy vibes. A wrong smile to the wrong person at the wrong time may get you in trouble. Understand when and how to give ‘friendly smiles’ and ‘formal smiles’.

7. Be confident : when whatever you say or do be confident, when you start to believe in yourself people will believe in you too.  

8. Don’t cultivate jealousy: Jealousy will make you a bitter person. When you are jealous with someone, others can feel it, especially the person you are jealous of.  It doesn't give you a good image.  

9. Be humble : you should not be overconfident and be a narcissistic. In other words you should express that you know what you are doing instead of you know everything. When you are smart and humble at the same time people start to respect you.  

10. Make people feel comfortable in your company: When you have a good personality you don’t have to tell people about that. They feel it. Don’t talk about your money or wealth in front of a poor, don’t talk about your educational achievements in front of a person who is less educated. Instead be supportive to people around you to be better.

11. Take care of your health & wellbeing: Start exercising, eat healthy, and use products to maintain good hair and skin. Dress clean and pleasantly. Moreover, ensure that you always smell good. Staying happy is important to stay healthy.

We are not perfect human beings. But we have the ability to shape our lives. If we first identify our weaknesses, by overcoming each weakness one at a time, we can be finally succeeded.