Your relationship should be fulfilling and rewarding for both of you. There may be some issues, inconsistencies in any relationship. Arguments, grievances and heartaches  can also arise in relationships when problems come at different times. In a successful and good relationship, these things can be resolved quickly and you can live happily. You can experience satisfaction in the relationship because problems can be solved. Because of this, we are often patient in inconsistencies and problems in relationships. But patience in involving a toxic relationship t is detrimental to our well-being. That really needs to be stopped. Let’s look at a few signs of such a bad relationship that can be identified.

When you are in a healthy relationship you are happy. We expect happiness, love, safety, support and emotional security from a relationship. If these are not available in your relationship, you should try to develop them. If you do not find what you are looking for then it is better for a break up. 

A successful relationship makes you face life with enthusiasm. Your good qualities will come to the fore more and more. It nourishes you as a person. So life begins to mature. But if you are in a failed relationship you cannot grow & develop as a person. You feel it deeply, that you are not with the right person. You may feel stuck or anxious. First find out why it feels that way.It may have been caused by an external problem.Try to solve the problem. But if the problem is in the relationship and it cannot be resolved, it is better to end the relationship.

If your spouse underestimates you, you are not in a good relationship. If he or she is not sensitive to your feelings, does not listen to you when you talk, and does not have time for you, you may have to rethink the relationship.

If your spouse controls you, spends your money on his or her wishes against your will, keeps your friends / family away from you, and forbids you from doing things you desire unjustly, you may be emotionally and physically abused if you are not in a good relationship.

The incompatibility of your needs with each other can also be a sign of a relationship that causes intense painful emotions. These are the kinds of relationships that are often broken after years of love. There can be many good qualities in both. But many problems arise because expectations and needs of the couple do not match with each other. This can happen when the other person tries to change the way he or she wants to see the other person or he / she tries to change the way the other person wants because of love. As a result, both parties may eventually experience severe pain. If each other's expectations and needs are very different, it is better to end the relationship.

Another factor that can cause many relationships to break up is dishonesty. A relationship that does not trust each other cannot last long. Where there is no trust, love flees. Where there is no love there is no relationship. If your spouse is unreliable, you may want to end the relationship.

No matter how bad it is, one of the reasons why some people do not think to end a relationship is because of the pressure from society.When a relationship breaks down, some people are tempted to ask frequent questions about why you broke up.You do not have to answer to anyone for the decisions you make about your life. Also, it is you, not them, who suffer because of the bad relationship. So don't get caught up in a relationship that is toxic for you and make your life  suffer.